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batyatoon ([personal profile] batyatoon) wrote2009-10-07 08:58 pm

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There isn't any easier way to say this.

We lost the baby. Yesterday morning.



To forestall the likeliest questions:
* We're both about as close to okay as it's possible to be under the circumstances.
* This is not private. Please don't hesitate to tell anyone who you feel should know.
* Currently we are still planning to attend OVFF at the end of the month.

I'm not disabling comments but I may or may not be answering them.

[identity profile] scifantasy.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, no...I'm so sorry.

If you need anything, just let me know.

[identity profile] orawnzva.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, dear... I'm sorry.

[identity profile] hsifyppah.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
Ohh..! I'm so sorry to hear that. I am thinking of you.
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[personal profile] sophistry 2009-10-08 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, Batya. I don't even... I am so, so sorry. If you need anything whatsoever - an ear, a shoulder, distractingly bad filking - please don't even hesitate to let me know.

I'm so sorry.
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[personal profile] batshua 2009-10-08 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
*gentle hugs*

I'm so sorry.

If you need space or if you need company, or if you need to talk about it, or if you need NOT to talk about it, ... well, I'm here for any of those things if you want.

[identity profile] quean-of-swords.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
Oh God... I'm so sorry! Thoughts, prayers, and good feelings for you and your family.

[identity profile] patrickat.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
So sorry. Will be thinking of you.
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[personal profile] weirdquark 2009-10-08 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry.

[identity profile] daniidebrabant.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
I'm very sorry. You are in my thoughts.

[identity profile] jezrana.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, honey. I'm so sorry.

[identity profile] happyfunpaul.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:44 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, dear. I'm so sorry for you.

[identity profile] smallship1.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs and love* We're thinking of you.

[identity profile] shati.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, Batya. Thinking of you.

[identity profile] bercilakslady.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
Oh honey, I'm so, so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

If you need anything, please let me know.

*gentle hugs*

[identity profile] areyoumymemmy.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, god. I'm so very, very sorry. I'll be thinking of you both.

[identity profile] johnnycanuck.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
Oh Batya, Alex. I'm so sorry.

My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

[identity profile] sweetmusic-27.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
If you don't have my number, Merav and Jon do or I can email it to you.

I am, of course, always ready, willing, and able to provide silly distractions and mail, snail or e-, or anything else you might need.

I know you've got everybody saying that and it's dizzying and you probably don't know what you need 'cause there's not a lot of things that are easily identifiable as good or useful to do/say.

But. If there's warm, tactful, helpful, and not-cliched to say, please pretend I said it. In lieu of that, you're my friend and I love you and I'm here for you, always.
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[identity profile] nextian.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
My prayers and love are with you. If there's anything I can do, please let me know.

[identity profile] in-the-blue.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
So much love and so many good thoughts coming from here to both of you. If there's anything at all I can do, even if it's nothing but a silly little distraction, just ask and it's yours.

There's more I can say, but I'll save it for when it's just us. You'll be in my thoughts, and you're already in the hearts of everyone here.

[identity profile] maedbh7.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs*
May the Lord comfort you
-H...
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[personal profile] newredshoes 2009-10-08 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
Oh honey. All my love. All of it. I am keeping you and Alex in my closest thoughts.
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[personal profile] wakeupnew 2009-10-08 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
Oh Batya. I am so, so sorry. I know you have a lot of people saying this (and, like an above commenter said, it's probably a little overwhelming), but if there's anything (and I really do mean anything) at all that I can do... You know the rest. You guys are in my thoughts.

[identity profile] crazedcrusader.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry, Batya, and I love you both so much. I don't know how to tell you how sorry I am.
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[personal profile] solarbird 2009-10-08 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, dear, I'm sorry...

[identity profile] ailsaek.livejournal.com 2009-10-08 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
Oh no. I am so very very sorry.

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